Why is self esteem of utmost importance for women?
Without high self worth it becomes very challenging to be their authentic self and experience total happiness. Women with low self esteem are far more likely to conform to what others impose on them and often times these impositions are not healthy at all.
The importance of self value is very clear, how you think and feel about yourself affects every single aspect of your life! Your success in life depends on your ability to value yourself and embody your self worth. Regarding relationships self value is number 1#. Many of my clients over the years have been in unsatisfying relationships - including abusive relationships. They had chosen to remain in the relationships that continue to reinforce their low self esteem and so until deep unconscious changes are made not able to attract relationships where they are valued and appreciated.
This does include relationships with family members, friends and co-workers. Low self value if continued to be ignored can eventually lead to poor health as well, as I have witnessed in some women who needed to take action years before to their inner healing.
One of the best ways to begin to heal is to discover where these false beliefs about yourself first began. Which is getting to the root cause under hypnosis. However the most difficult part is to begin the healing process as these women are plagued with negative self talk and self doubt and so have a tendency not to take action. They become stuck and immobilized for fear of failure.
As these women are able to take the first step in the healing and self discovery process they become more and more self assured that YES! They do not need the approval of others, they will find themselves no longer overreacting and becoming de-energized by anger, no longer making excuses to fulfill roles in their family that are counter-productive and co-dependent, and no longer find the need to self medicate their deeply embedded emotional pain. And these are just a few of the symptoms of low self value. The importance of healing this aspect of self cannot be taken for granted. Your life is waiting...
There is hope and healing that can take place as long as you are ready for positive changes within yourself and your life!
Laura K. Ellis